The Zendala above is one of my favorites. I named it "Shinning", because that's what it looks like to me.
And right now, I could use a little light, because there are some folks who depend on me, and I need to decide how to handle it so that their needs and my needs are both met. How to make it a win/win situation.
In some situations, that is not possible, but in this situation, it can easily be a no-lose proposition. We can both come out ahead.
That is something I do strive for, to craft win/win scenarios. My needs do not have to be met at the expense of someone else's. In fact, my needs are better met if yours are too.
I think it all goes back to the Golden Rule -- which, BTW, is found in almost every religion & culture, with very minor differences. It seems to be a Universal Ethic, to care about others, to treat them with respect, to include them in my ethical boundaries.
Although, I have to admit, I do hope that I am treated better than I sometimes treat others.